I’ve never understood why it’s considered weak to send positive vibes and love to people from your past. Why a happy birthday text to an ex, a congratulation on the new job to a former bestfriend, or a straight out I miss you to someone you had a fall out with is frawned upon.
It is so much easier to hate than it is to love…I could honestly say I still care about every person I’ve ever loved. I’ve never understood why showing love and compassion to people who have wronged me in the past is seen as an act of vulnerability or is supposedly offensive to my pride. You know what’s weak? Hatred, hostility, bitterness, apathy, and forcing ourselves to hold back on kindness because society says so.
This thought is so spot on and is very much found in our society. People love being negative and judgmental while they stop themselves from loving. Being in pain of hating anyone is acceptable to them rather then replying to a pure feeling. If moving on is like this it’s quite weak rationale of love.
Sahib jise nafrat krte o woh tumhara hi intekhab tha 🙂 Aur Fankar fan-paro se hota he